At the MIT reunion, I found Don Quixote:
I love MIT reunions.
I love seeing people return to
MIT Sloan School of Management with shining smiles and glistening eyes full of memories, friendships, and stories. As a Latin American, I especially love that many of them see me, open their arms, and give me a huge hug. They tell me how my classes—and especially my jokes—have survived the years.
This year, while visiting one of the reunion lunches, I ran into one of my most beloved former students. As always, he was extraordinarily effusive. Some of the best hugs I receive are from him—and he is Chinese, so I know those hugs are meaningful.
But this time he was disappointed.
A decade ago, I told him that he should spend his life trying to make the lives of others better. He has done exactly that. Yet he looked at me and said:
"I've tried. But somehow the world feels worse. I realize I have had only a very small impact."
I had only stopped by to say hello. Instead, I found myself answering one of the hardest questions I have received in a long time. As I often do when confronted with a difficult question, I started talking about something else:
I talked about Don Quixote.
After losing his sanity, Alonso Quijano becomes Don Quixote and embarks on a series of adventures. He loses almost all of them. But he gets up and tries again... and again... and again.
He fights giants. He fights oppression. He fights injustice.
And he gets beaten up.
In the end, after being defeated in a duel, he returns home, recovers his sanity, and abandons his knightly pursuits.
To me, one of the saddest moments in literature is what happens next.
He has regained his reason, but he has lost something far more important: his imagination, his madness, and his willingness to fight.
At MIT, we love to fight.
At the
MIT Sloan Sustainability Initiative, we fight the emissions that are heating our planet. We fight discrimination and exclusion. We fight systems that strip people of dignity and opportunity.
And we get beaten up.
And we do it again... and again... and again.
Not because we are guaranteed to win.
We do it because we believe we cannot afford not to fight.
What is the alternative?
The alternative is to become a bystander. A spectator to the injustices that take place around us every day.
And the distance between a bystander and an accomplice is very small.
Sometimes the hardest challenges require an ounce of ingenuity, an ounce of creativity, an ounce of courage, an ounce of patience—and a ton of crazy.
That is exactly how I would describe MIT graduates.
So, my dear Jay, it is okay to lose.
It is okay to be frustrated.
It is okay to get beaten up.
Because the alternative is not winning.
The alternative is becoming a bystander.
I would still rather stand with the crazies than with the bullies.
The next time you feel that the battle is too hard, just look to your side.
You will find me, and many MIT graduates, standing right there with you.