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I rarely post something personal on LinkedIn, but today I want to make an exception and share a little bit about my Mum.
This beautiful and graceful lady you see in the photograph is my mother, lovingly surrounded by her three “grandchildren.”
My mother grew up in a conservative Gujarati family and married into one as well. Through every stage of her life, she has always been “the strong one” — quietly carrying responsibilities that would have broken many others.
She stood by my father as his health deteriorated early in their marriage. She cared for her own mother through the painful journey of dementia, and supported her father as he battled both cancer and the heartbreak of watching his wife suffer. When her sister passed away, she raised her niece as her own daughter. Later, she stepped in once again to care for another nephew after he lost his father.
And amidst all of this, she also raised me — a child with a speech disability who demanded far more of her time, patience, love and emotional strength than I perhaps understood at the time.
My mother has been my best friend, my anchor and my wisest counsellor through every chapter of my life. When I moved to London, she gave me the courage to leave home even though her own heart was aching. When I left a stable job to start something of my own, she was the one who encouraged me to take the leap. And when that venture failed and I returned to corporate life, she held me together and reminded me that one setback could never define who I was.
When I became Partner at Deloitte, nobody celebrated harder than she did. And when I moved to Mahindra, she smiled, blushed and happily confessed that she has always had a huge crush on Anand Mahindra.
What makes her story even more remarkable is that she truly discovered her own independence much later in life — around the age of 70. Since then, she has travelled the world, averaging nearly 4 to 5 countries a year. She has rekindled her love for music, transitioning from playing the sitar to learning classical singing. And very recently, thanks to my wife and me, she has also been introduced to the delightful world of cocktails.
My mother’s life has been one of sacrifice, resilience, grace and endless love. But more than anything else, she has shown me what strength looks like when it is wrapped in kindness and dignity.
So even though I am a day late in celebrating Mother’s Day, I simply want to say thank you.
Thank you for everything, Mum. I owe you far more than words could ever express.